Not only that, changing career tracks can be tricky, especially if you leave the adult business and try to reinvent yourself. 'The first time I told a girl I was in porn she disconnected her phone number the same night, and I never saw or heard from her again.' ' having a relationship with a significant other,' Steele says. Money,' says the hardest thing is what happens when he's not working. Jeremy Steele, star of 'Naughty Neighbors' and 'M.I.L.F.